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Jan 9, 2026
#13

Quietly Quit Relentless Striving

Happy Quitter's Day!

Today we're talking about why it is that most folks fall off of their New Year Resolutions by the 2nd Friday in January and what we can do about it - with a counterintuitive call to quietly quit overfilling our plates and say goodbye to relentless striving. What if "enough" was the goal all along? Tune in for my take on anti-hustle reflection and intention, and why filling my plate to 70% full is feeling supportive, along with some strategies you can try to add some mindfulness, awareness, and connection (plus peace!) to your year.

Resources Mentioned in this Episode

Tips and Takeaways to Try to Apply Yourself

  • Mindfulness as a wedge to get some space and gain perspective
    • (Try 3 deep breaths, with exhales that last longer than your inhales, to switch from "Fight or flight" Sympathetic system to "Rest and Digest" Parasympathetic mode & regulate your nervous system - placing a hand on your chest also helps stimulate the vagus nerve and calm you down)
  • Choose goals that come from a place of intrinsic motivation, as opposed to seeking external validation (and don't be afraid to have a goal just for fun, as long as you know your deeper why and how it ties to your values in some way!)
  • Zoom Out: track your qualitative energy & vitality, not just your quantitative productivity or data/stats
  • Focus on fewer small, consistent - atomic! - habits - rather than more, bigger, dramatic changes. Consistency breeds self-trust, which cultivates momentum over time as you start to identify with the few daily practices that feel deeply connected to you, and they become more effortless and automatic with time!

How to keep up with me

  • The next Build with Becky Program, Prime+Progress, comes out this Sunday 1/11/26! This 5-week phase of Build with Becky is a well-rounded program designed to build strength across all major movement patterns, prioritizing a different, heavy-weight, low-rep major compound lift for lower body each day - Day 1: Squats, Day 2: Hip Thrusts, Day 3: Deadlifts! If you want to learn the lifts with the biggest bang for your buck and build strength in a sustainable way to grow as you go, this is the program for you!
  • If it feels supportive, the Better with Becky Sober Curious Challenge is underway, leveraging the social support of Dry January to help you get started. It’s never too late to join, is 100% free and comes with lots of resources to support your sober curious journey!
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